There’s a story you’ve probably heard before—even if you didn’t grow up in church. One moment. One event. The birth of Jesus. But what makes this story hit different at the start of a year isn’t the event itself. It’s the responses of those who experienced it. Same moment. Same reality. Completely different reactions. And honestly? … More Before You Plan 2026, Check Your Responses
January does not require speed—it requires honesty. Before you rush into new habits, rhythms and goals, pause long enough to understand what shaped you last year. Reflection clarifies direction. When you know why you move, you can choose how to move—with intention, not pressure. … More Before You Rush Ahead: Why January Is the Time to Pause, Not Push
You can’t fix surface problems with surface solutions. If the core of your thinking is broken—If your beliefs are fear-based, ego-driven, or rooted in wounded ambition—then every good thing you build on top of that will eventually begin to rot. … More Slow-cooked Personal Development Part 6: You Can’t Build a Future on a Faulty Past
Small lapses today, deep poverty tomorrow. … More Slow-Cooked Personal Development Part 5: The Poverty You’re Quietly Engineering for Yourself
“On Egypt? If you lean on Egypt, it will be like a reed that splinters beneath your weight and pierces your hand. Pharaoh, the king of Egypt, is completely unreliable!” — Isaiah 36:6 NLT Leadership doesn’t get easier—it just gets louder. Between emails, news cycles, public opinion, internal dialogue, and the expectations of others, leaders … More Sift through the noise: a leadership habit worth building
Some parts of Scripture leave us shaken. Judges 19 to 21 is one such portion. The evil described is almost too horrific to retell. And yet, we must sit with it—not to sensationalize, but to understand how far a people can fall when they turn away from God. Turning away from God: The Root of … More Understanding the Horror in Judges: A Lesson on Selfishness
Personal growth isn’t just about reading the right books, setting goals, or having life all figured out. Sometimes, the greatest lessons come from the most unexpected (and even annoying) experiences—if we’re willing to lean in and learn. A few weeks ago, I had one of those moments. I was on a trip, stuck with a … More Slow-Cooked Personal Development Part 4: Love of Learning
Personal development isn’t just about pressing forward; sometimes, it’s about pausing long enough to let life shape us. … More Slow-Cooked Personal Development Part 3: When Life Slows You Down
Passion for the highest offers a radically different perspective: it’s about refusing to settle for surface-level improvement and choosing to pursue deep, meaningful transformation. … More Slow-Cooked Personal Development Part 2: Passion for the Highest
If the journey of personal growth is like a slow-cooked meal, then looking at God is the secret ingredient that transforms the whole dish. It’s the deep, nourishing practice that both enhances your personal development and anchors it in something eternal. In my previous post, I shared how so many of us—especially Gen Z—fall for what I … More Slow-Cooked Personal Development Part 1: Looking at God
True personal development isn’t found in a viral video or a self-help hack. It’s found in the quiet, slow moments of your life. Moments where you choose to show up, even when it’s hard. Moments where you wait patiently for the transformation that’s still brewing. … More Why Microwave Personal Development Fails
The author shares a personal journey through grief following the loss of their father, highlighting the profound emotions associated with it. Through surrendering to grief, they discover gratitude for the memories and legacy left behind. Their book aims to inspire others facing similar losses and will be launched in Cameroon, encouraging shared conversations about grief. … More Navigating Grief: Embracing Loss and Discovering Gratitude
Rituals are what keep the disoriented soul grounded! Grief needs them to stay at bay. … More No! It’s not just nuts
It was a serene Sunday evening around 6 PM, with the sun casting its last golden rays. I found myself on the staircase leading into the church auditorium, lost in thought and waiting for the speaker to take the stage. My mind was elsewhere, regretting my early arrival, when suddenly, he appeared before me, smiling—a … More Surprised by my heart
The greatest challenge to overcome with grief is the lie that death is the worst thing that could happen to a loved one. … More No grief, not this time!
Journey with Della 