39, Single and Happy
Singleness is the gift that no one wants but a gift nonetheless. While the struggles with it are real, the opportunities its brings are just as numerous … More 39, Single and Happy
Singleness is the gift that no one wants but a gift nonetheless. While the struggles with it are real, the opportunities its brings are just as numerous … More 39, Single and Happy
Character or the lack of it is the number one reason why Christian leaders in my circles do not end well. No wonder scripture warns that the people who think they are standing should take heed lest they fall – 1 Cor. 10:12 My interpretation? “The moment you think you have overcome it is the very … More CHARACTER – A very big “C”
In a culture where the #happiness of the woman at any age is so often tagged to being #married and having children, I definitely have something to say about being 39, single and happy. … More 39, single and happy!
“Thank God for coronavirus” I heard myself whisper on my morning walk today. As a Christian, my Bible teaches me to have a grateful attitude in life but this was not just a give-thanks-in-everything situation. I was comparing two things – the streets of Yaounde this morning when the safety measures have been lifted and … More Thank God for Coronavirus?
The greatest battle is the one within and the true winner is (s)he who conquers him/herself. … More The Ego Monster
The next time you face the temptation to blame your leaders for anything at all, ask yourself what kind of follower you are … More Following in uncertain times
If you can imagine a possible outcome, you can plan for it and if you can plan for it, you can achieve it! … More Leading in uncertain times
Because people can only follow a leader they trust, you and I cannot afford to take trust lightly. … More Nugget #3: I trust the GPS
Assumptions about the people we work with affect leadership negatively. Rather than base your actions on assumptions, try trusting till proven wrong. … More Don’t assume, let time show you
Leadership capacity is determined as much by what you don’t do as it is by what you actually do! … More Leadership Nugget #2: Don’t do it!
Whether you realize it or not, you leave a trail in the wake of your leadership, one that is unique to who you are as a leader … More Leadership Nugget #1: The trail
Before you go hanging your nose at those “South Africans” or those “others” remember that we all are capable of such grievous crimes because our hearts are as desperately sick as they are wicked. … More It Starts Slowly: Reflections on Xenophobia and Other Hate Crimes
Sometimes we have to go in circles to draw a straight line and only she who sticks with the most dizzying of them can leave a straight path for others to follow. … More There is no point. Or is there?
Simply because it is red does not mean it is blood. Accuracy is important in leadership at all levels … More Light is back. Or is it?
Whenever you are trying to put up appearances in the different posts of responsibility you have, those for whom you are doing it can see right through you. They see you. They know you. … More Essenceship