Before you go hanging your nose at those “South Africans” or those “others” remember that we all are capable of such grievous crimes because our hearts are as desperately sick as they are wicked. … More It Starts Slowly: Reflections on Xenophobia and Other Hate Crimes
Sometimes we have to go in circles to draw a straight line and only she who sticks with the most dizzying of them can leave a straight path for others to follow. … More There is no point. Or is there?
Simply because it is red does not mean it is blood. Accuracy is important in leadership at all levels … More Light is back. Or is it?
Whenever you are trying to put up appearances in the different posts of responsibility you have, those for whom you are doing it can see right through you. They see you. They know you. … More Essenceship
Even when you are not thinking, you are making decisions out of who you are. How can you make sure that they align with those you would make if you thought things through? … More I PAID FOR boosters on Candy Crush, again! – Where the heart really is
What do you do when those with the position and power fail in their attempts to do what should be done for the greater good? You Follow lead! … More It takes even more courage
At any one time, helplessness leaves one feeling incapable of affecting the status quo. But what if it is the same helplessness that should drive the change we ache for? … More When will enough be enough?
Thanks for joining me! These past few days, I have been immersed in doing things that I do not think were ever intended to be done by me. You know what I mean? The types of things which half the time you have no idea what should be done or what you are doing? Well, … More The Journey Continues
Photo Credit: Inner World Works Earlier today, I accompanied my nephew for his first day in a new school. I was worried because it was the middle of the school term and we were moving him to a new institution where he had no friends and admittedly was nervous. I was also worried because of … More Trauma: The Unacknowledged Crippler
Photo credits: Steemit The year was 2005 and I had just received news of yet another close friend getting married. I was genuinely happy for her and had my job not been too demanding would have made time out to be in her bridal train, as she had requested. As I looked forward to her … More Identity and Singlehood
Photo Credit: Google images Yesterday I recorded this weeks edition of Me4real’s Be Real Be You that should air on four radio stations in the North West Region of Cameroon this weekend. Continuing an ongoing series on fear, this week’s edition zoomed in on the fear of failure. I have not stopped thinking about that … More Fear of failure
In my journey with the Lord, different seasons have been governed by different themes as I seek to be everything that He calls me to be. Sometimes I emphasized trust, other times it was obedience and still others revolved around surrender etc. But my biggest struggle has centered around taming “me” enough to let Him … More Hear, Obey, Follow: The trio of the God life
With People Magazine naming Sandra Bullock as the World’s most beautiful woman for 2015 and the recent trend of teenage girls getting hurt trying to get fuller lips through the #KylieJennerChallenge a few things are running through my mind. It is easy to criticize the teenagers for going that far but if you have ever been one, … More Forget People Magazine and the scientists – You are B-E-A-UTIFUL
Photo credit: Google images Sandwiched in the middle of this five-lettered word is the letter U Not by chance but by design for the word itself if irrelevant apart from U Take it away and encounters with others of any kind quickly unravel for lack of a U Bring in back in and strength, vitality … More T-R-U-S-T
I am awake but would rather not get out of bedThe pain in my heart is bigger than the knowledge in my headIt’s not that I am ignorant; in fact I heard everything that HE saidThat should count for something; but only if my heart meets my head. HE said at the appointed time all this and … More Acknowledging the Struggle
Journey with Della 