Slow-cooked Personal Development Part 7: The Cost of ‘I Don’t Know’
“I don’t know” is not a confession of ignorance—it is a refusal to investigate. … More Slow-cooked Personal Development Part 7: The Cost of ‘I Don’t Know’
“I don’t know” is not a confession of ignorance—it is a refusal to investigate. … More Slow-cooked Personal Development Part 7: The Cost of ‘I Don’t Know’
There’s a story you’ve probably heard before—even if you didn’t grow up in church. One moment. One event. The birth of Jesus. But what makes this story hit different at the start of a year isn’t the event itself. It’s the responses of those who experienced it. Same moment. Same reality. Completely different reactions. And honestly? … More Before You Plan 2026, Check Your Responses
Some parts of Scripture leave us shaken. Judges 19 to 21 is one such portion. The evil described is almost too horrific to retell. And yet, we must sit with it—not to sensationalize, but to understand how far a people can fall when they turn away from God. Turning away from God: The Root of … More Understanding the Horror in Judges: A Lesson on Selfishness
If the journey of personal growth is like a slow-cooked meal, then looking at God is the secret ingredient that transforms the whole dish. It’s the deep, nourishing practice that both enhances your personal development and anchors it in something eternal. In my previous post, I shared how so many of us—especially Gen Z—fall for what I … More Slow-Cooked Personal Development Part 1: Looking at God
It was a serene Sunday evening around 6 PM, with the sun casting its last golden rays. I found myself on the staircase leading into the church auditorium, lost in thought and waiting for the speaker to take the stage. My mind was elsewhere, regretting my early arrival, when suddenly, he appeared before me, smiling—a … More Surprised by my heart
Failure to choose the right thing is choosing to get stuck … More When you don’t make your bed
There is no room for self-blame because God is able to redeem even my mistakes and cause them to work out for my good because I love Him and I am called according to His purposes. … More Part 5: Blame
Every now and then you come up against a wall – those situations that leave you completely helpless and that just won’t budge no matter how hard you pray, try, or push.
What do you do in those times? My most recent blog post talks about that.
Enjoy! … More Confronting life’s walls
In a culture where the #happiness of the woman at any age is so often tagged to being #married and having children, I definitely have something to say about being 39, single and happy. … More 39, single and happy!
“Thank God for coronavirus” I heard myself whisper on my morning walk today. As a Christian, my Bible teaches me to have a grateful attitude in life but this was not just a give-thanks-in-everything situation. I was comparing two things – the streets of Yaounde this morning when the safety measures have been lifted and … More Thank God for Coronavirus?
The greatest battle is the one within and the true winner is (s)he who conquers him/herself. … More The Ego Monster
The next time you face the temptation to blame your leaders for anything at all, ask yourself what kind of follower you are … More Following in uncertain times
If you can imagine a possible outcome, you can plan for it and if you can plan for it, you can achieve it! … More Leading in uncertain times
Assumptions about the people we work with affect leadership negatively. Rather than base your actions on assumptions, try trusting till proven wrong. … More Don’t assume, let time show you
Leadership capacity is determined as much by what you don’t do as it is by what you actually do! … More Leadership Nugget #2: Don’t do it!